How to Talk to Your Kids about Easter
Paul Thigpen
© 1999 by Paul Thigpen
For most children, Easter is a strange mix of bunnies and angels,
colored eggs and special church music. "What do jelly beans
have to do with Jesus?" they may ask. To help them sort it
all out, here's some background for talking about the holiday.
Easter is the oldest and most important celebration of the Church,
and for good reason: If the first Easter had never taken place,
there would be no Christian faith. On that day nearly two thousand
years ago, Jesus came back from the dead to prove that evil could
not defeat God.
Younger children especially might have trouble understanding why
Jesus died such a terrible death on the cross in the first place.
Since he was a kind and gentle man, they may wonder why anyone would
have wanted to kill him.
To explain Easter, then, we must help our children understand that
the world is a terribly broken place, where people act selfishly
and hurt one another. When Jesus showed people how selfish they
were, some felt sorry and changed their ways. But others were too
proud to admit they were wrong and in need of help, so they decided
to get rid of him ... or at least, they thought they were
getting rid of him.
But Easter caught them by surprise. No one expected a dead man to
come back to life -- to get up out of the grave and go walking and
talking once more with the living. That's not normal. And that's
exactly the point of Easter: Jesus wasn't just a "normal"
man, and his resurrection proved it.
Easter helped make something clear to Jesus' friends that they hadn't
fully understood before. They all had known that Jesus was in every
way a human being, with a body and mind like theirs and like ours;
in fact, his death had shown his humanity all too clearly. They
also realized that Jesus was no ordinary man; he had lived a life
of perfect love and worked miracles such as healing the sick.
But when Jesus came back to life, his friends came to realize that
he was much more than just an extraordinary man; He was God as well.
That wasn't an easy truth to accept. After all, why would the mighty
Creator of the universe be willing to live on earth as a man? Why
would he allow himself to be born in poverty; to suffer hunger,
thirst and weariness; to endure misunderstanding and hatred; and
to be cruelly tortured and murdered?
After Jesus' resurrection, he answered those questions. The world
was so hopelessly broken, he told his followers, that the only way
to fix it was for God himself to climb into it and begin changing
it from the inside out. And that's exactly what God had done when
he came to earth as Jesus.
How did Jesus start the process of changing the world? He did it
by working God's justice and God's mercy at the same time.
When someone does something wrong, justice demands that the person
be punished; he or she must pay a price for what has been done.
That's why judges have to sentence criminals to prison or other
punishments.
Yet the world is so full of wrongdoing that if God had simply punished
it for its sin, he would have had to destroy it. But God's desire
was to save the world, not to destroy it, because his mercy was
as great as his justice.
So he devised a plan: God himself became a man so he could take
onto himself both the wrongdoing and the punishment of the whole
human race, including us. That way he could offer us forgiveness
instead of judgment. It's as if the judge in a courtroom sentenced
a man to die for committing horrible crimes, but then took the criminal's
place in the electric chair so the criminal could be pardoned.
As a human being representing all the rest of us, Jesus carried
our sins and died in our place. That's what Good Friday is all about.
But Good Friday wasn't the end of the story. After Jesus paid the
price of death for us, he proved that, as God, his power was even
greater than death. By conquering the grave, he showed that he was
Lord -- the Ruler -- of heaven and earth.
But there's more. Since Jesus was one of us, his victory on that
first Easter morning was our victory too. His resurrection was a
promise to all the rest of us that if we'll give our lives to him,
we don't have to be afraid of dying, because we'll also be raised
one day to live with him forever.
That's glorious news! No wonder Easter is the most joyous celebration
of all!
And what about the jelly beans and bunnies? Well, over the years
Christians have looked for ways to picture the new life that Jesus
made possible when he rose from the dead. Easter comes in the springtime,
so it made sense to symbolize the resurrection with pictures of
the new life that comes forth in spring--lilies and other flowers,
eggs and jelly eggs (or "jelly beans"), bunnies and other
baby animals.
All those cheerful symbols should serve as glad reminders to our
children and to us as well: Because of that first resurrection morning,
Jesus has the power to make everything new.
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